Support for your sober days, on your schedule
A partner who checks in at the times that matter most to you. Remindeeu is not a replacement for medical or crisis care.
Available in the US, Canada, UK and Europe. Updated .
Short answer
Staying sober or alcohol free is often hardest at specific times: evenings, weekends and social events. A partner who checks in at those times can make a real difference to your choices.
- Check ins at high risk times
- Private chat
- Calls confirmed by both of you
Staying sober or alcohol free is often hardest at specific times: evenings, weekends and social events. A partner who checks in at those times can make a real difference to your choices.
On Remindeeu you set the check in times that matter most and choose a partner from the bids. Calls are confirmed by both of you. Remindeeu is not a replacement for medical treatment, recovery programs or crisis care; please reach out to a professional or local helpline if you are in danger.
Who it is for
- People in early sobriety
- Sober curious and alcohol free challenge participants
- Anyone who wants support alongside a recovery program
- People rebuilding routines after drinking
How it works
- Post your goal, budget and duration
- Partners bid with a price and a message
- Hire one, set your call schedule and dot every call
What you get
Set your budget
You decide what to pay and for how long.
Partners bid
Compare prices and messages before you hire.
Shared call schedule
Both of you can edit it and both are notified.
Two sided dots
Your partner dots the call, you confirm it.
Private chat
Message between calls.
Live audio spaces
Start a voice room straight from your chat.
Why it works
- Expecting to report to someone raises follow through.
- A real person notices patterns an app misses.
- Confirmed calls create a record you can both trust.
Tips to get the most from it
- Schedule check ins before your highest risk times
- Agree on a plan for social events in advance
- Keep using any recovery group or professional support you have
- Celebrate milestones with your partner
How Remindeeu compares
| Remindeeu | A friend | Coaching programs | |
|---|---|---|---|
| You choose the price | Yes | Free | Fixed packages |
| Reliability | Paid and scheduled | Varies | High |
| Proof of check ins | Two sided dots | No | Sometimes |
| Chat and audio | Built in | Separate apps | Varies |
Frequently asked questions
What is a sober buddy?
A sober buddy is someone who supports your sobriety with regular check ins, especially at high risk times such as evenings, weekends and social events. Remindeeu partners schedule those check ins with you.
Is this a replacement for AA or treatment?
No. Remindeeu adds accountability alongside professional care and recovery groups. In the US you can call the SAMHSA National Helpline on 1 800 662 4357, and in the UK Drinkline on 0300 123 1110. Call emergency services if you are in danger.
What does an accountability partner do?
An accountability partner checks in at agreed times, asks whether you did what you committed to, celebrates wins and helps you plan around obstacles. They do not do the work for you; they make sure it stays visible.
How do I find an accountability partner on Remindeeu?
Post your goal with your budget and duration. Partners are notified and bid with their price and a message. You compare bids, message partners if you want, then hire one and pay securely.
How much does an accountability partner cost?
On Remindeeu you set the budget and partners bid, so the price is up to you. Simple weekly check ins usually cost far less than a coaching package, while daily calls or specialist experience cost more.
How often should I check in with an accountability partner?
Daily for habits such as reading, sobriety or exam study, two or three times a week for fitness and writing, and weekly for business and career goals. Start more often, then reduce once the habit settles.
What is the difference between an accountability partner and a coach?
A coach usually brings expertise and a method. An accountability partner focuses on consistency: making sure you do what you planned. Many partners on Remindeeu have coaching experience, and their bid explains their approach.
Should my accountability partner be a friend?
Friends are free, but many people find friends too kind to push them or too busy to stay consistent. A paid partner has a clear role, a schedule and a reason to show up every time.
What should I say on an accountability call?
Share what you committed to, what you actually did, what got in the way and your plan for the next period. Short and honest works better than long and polished.
What is dotting?
Dotting is how check ins are confirmed. Your partner calls you and dots to say they called, you get notified and dot too. Both of you can edit the dotting schedule any time.
Can I talk to my partner inside Remindeeu?
Yes. Every hired partner gets a private chat with you, and either of you can start a live audio space right from that chat.
Do you accept cards from my country?
Yes. Payments are processed by Bachs, which accepts cards issued in every country, including the US, Canada, the UK and all of Europe. Prices are shown in US dollars and your bank converts the amount if your card uses another currency.
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